The following tips will help your child fall asleep, stay asleep and establish good sleeping habits.
- Maintain a consistent sleep schedule – Your child’s
bed time and wake up time should be about the same every day of the
week, regardless if the day is a school day or not. A consistent wake up
time sets the stage for the rest of the day and allows adequate sleep
pressure to build up by late evening to allow for quicker sleep onset.
- Exercise daily – Have your child make exercise part
of his or her daily routine. Incorporating exercise as a daily habit at
a young age will help establish it as a daily life-long healthy routine.
- Don’t go to bed hungry – Make sure your child
doesn’t go to bed hungry. Provide a light snack such as a glass of milk,
a piece of fruit or cereal and milk. Avoid feeding a heavy meal within 1
to 2 hours of bedtime, as this can interfere with sleep.
- Avoid caffeinated products – Your child should avoid
products that contain caffeine in the evening. Be aware
caffeine-containing products include ice-tea, some clear non-cola pops,
energy drinks, and chocolates aside from the more obvious colas and
coffee.
- Plan up to 1 hour of quiet time before bed – Before
bedtime every night, allow your child to set aside up to 1 hour for
calm, enjoyable activities, such as listening to quiet music or reading
a book. TV watching, heavy homework, or computer gaming should NOT be
part of quiet time. The quiet time activity need not all take place in
the child’s bedroom but it should culminate there such that the last
10-15 minutes are in the bedroom where the child will sleep.
- Other bedtime routines – Quiet time may include
going to the bathroom, brushing teeth, etc. Also, it is important for
children to be brought to bed/put into bed awake so that they learn to
fall asleep themselves.
- The bedroom itself – Your child’s bedroom should be
quiet, comfortable (70- 75° F), and dark (a
nightlight is acceptable for children afraid of a dark bedroom). To
avoid the bad habit of needing a television turned on to fall asleep, do
not put a television set in your child’s bedroom. It is fine to allow
security objects, such as a special blanket or stuffed animal, to be a
part of the bedtime routine. Use the bedroom for quiet time and sleeping
only; do not use the bedroom for time outs or as a room to send your
child to for punishment. The bedroom needs to be associated with
positive feelings, not negative ones. In your final interaction of the
evening, give a hug or a kiss, say goodnight to your child, turn off
your child’s bedroom light, and leave the room. The final interaction
should be predictable, deliberate, brief and yet sufficiently warm and
reassuring to your child.
Is nap taking okay for my child?
The amount of nap time depends on your child’s age. Newborns,
for example, ‘nap’ several hours a day, whereas 2-year-olds may nap 1 to 3 hours
each day over one to two naps, and 4 to 6 years olds may not require a nap at
all. Generally though, too many naps or long naps during the day can interfere
with the ability to sleep well at night.
Additional Sleep Information and Suggested Readings
Mindell, JA and Owens, JA. A Clinical Guide to Pediatric
Sleep: Diagnosis and Management of Sleep Problems. Philadelphia, PA:
Lippincott Williams and Wilkins, 2003.
http://www.sleepeducation.com and other educational links on the
American Academy of Sleep Medicine website http://www.aasmnet.org.
The National Sleep Foundation at http://www.sleepfoundation.org.